Letting go of a grudge :)

Hey heys! So I'm back alot quicker than I thought :P but sure, what harm!

So this one is a little random, I was just thinking about grudges lately, and I really am the type of person to hold one, but I can't help it :) If I have an argument or fall out with somebody I will always have this held against them, unless they apologize. I got to thinking that this is really the wrong way to be, forgive and forget is going to be my new way of thinking. Why? Because at the end of the day, life is way too short!

So what is a grudge? 

Not this thing :P

A grudge is a 'persistent feeling of ill will or resentment resulting from a past insult or injury'. Basically it is the act of hanging on to intense anger or dislike for someone based on something they wrongly did to you in the past. So, it could be a teacher that ate the head off you for not doing the right homework, a work partner who pushed you too far in work, or made some smart comment about your new pencil skirt or silk tie, it could be the ex who broke your heart or cheated, your partners ex causing you hassle, a sales person who keeps calling to your house, the list is absolutely endless! As I said above, I am so bad at holding grudges, but what's the point at the end of the day? Your just doing mental damage to yourself and causing yourself unnecessary stress. 

Dis someone hurt you intentionally in the past? Do they deliberately cause you trouble? Do you feel like they are 'out to get you' or compete with you socially? All you can do is be the bigger person, move on and forgive them. Sometimes we confuse the ability to hate someone with the inability to understand them. These people are obviously hurt themselves, insecure, jealous or angry. Just like me and you they make mistakes, and we have to learn to forgive them. You're not just doing better by you but better by them too.

I hope this helps you guys :) There really is no point in holding a grudge, just learn to forgive and forget :) 

Thanks for reading :D 

Sandy.S

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Winter Tag!!

Hey Guys!! Sorry it's been a while, I moved house and everything with my boyfriend so I'm all over the place basically :( 

I just said seen as we're nearly at Christmas ( YAAAY) I'll do a Winter Tag :) Also because I have moved house I might not be able to do videos for a while yet :D 

So here goes :) 

Happy Christmas!! 

 Top 2 Winter Beauty Essentials

I have to say Nivea Cold Creme because my skin is so dry :( And definitely my Body Shop Shea butter lip balm, it's amazing and badly needed for the dry crisp weather :)  

 Top 2 Winter Fashion Essentials

My owl hat from Penneys( Primark) that I bought last year and my Black gloves, also from Penneys ( I live there!) I got a pair of two for €1.50, where would you be going wrong? 

 What shoes do you tend to wear the most in the winter?

I would say Uggs :) and fluffy socks, they are amazingly comfy, I secretly wear them with my pajamas too :/

 Favorite Winter Accessory

My owl Pocket Warmer that I got as a gift :D it's SOOOO cute!!! and actually works too!

 Favorite Winter Nail Polish

I got a gold metallic varnish from NYC which my little sister stole :( but it was amazing! It looked silver in the light but was actually gold.

 Hot Cocoa or Apple Cider?

Hot Cocoa :) defenitely with cream and marshmallows.

Favorite Winter Candle?

The Vanilla Tea lights from Tesco are so nice, I love the smell of the smoke from those candles :) I think they were only about 2.50 for 29 !

 Snowboarding or Skiing?

Oh lord neither, but I can remember being really young, filling a bag of cattle feed with straw or hay and sitting on them sliding down a hill :) ( I live on a farm :P)

Have you ever gone Ice Skating? Are you any good or do you FAIL miserably?.

Nope haha I have SUCH bad balance :/

 Does it snow where you live?.

Sometimes, but I live in the middle of a valley and it snows up to twenty feet on the tops of the mountains! 

 Have you ever made a snowman?

Yes of course, I can remember making a girl snowman when I was really small and putting a really old pink t-shirt around it and the snow turned pink ! 

What holiday do you celebrate?

Christmas, St Stephen's Day and New Years :)

 Favorite Christmas/Holiday song?

Probably Snow is Falling by Shakin' Stevens, such a feel good song :)

 Favorite Christmas/Holiday movie?

Probably Love Actually or Gone With the Wind always comes on, but you can't beat Home Alone :)

 What is your favorite winter treat? (candy cane, gingerbread, etc…)

Probably the selection boxes :P I love the galaxy box, or maltesers from the Celebrations Tin :D

 If you were to ask Santa for one thing and you were guaranteed to get it, what would it be? 

Probably a good job, I know that sounds so pitiful but it's all I want at the moment :( If I had to say an object or thing probably a Laptop :)

 Do you have anything fun planned for this winter

I am going to Lanzarote in two weeks and I am so excited to have a tan for all the Parties! :P 

Ok guys, thats it!! Feel free to do this tag yourself :D 

Enjoy!! If i don't write soon, Happy Christmas and a Happy New Year to every one of my readers and followers :) 

Lots of Love!x

Sandy. S

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